Characteristics of a woman who will support sustenance for her husband

If you want to perfect your religion and get a lot of sustenance, get married. During the marriage, make the wife happy because making the wife happy is able to make a living. Do not hurt her heart, the reason is that the husband who hurts his wife's heart is narrowed in his sustenance by the Provider of Sustenance. If there is a problem, complete it in a polite way. Divorce is the last alternative that is taken, the reason is divorce, although it is lawful, but it is hated by God.

Before marriage, it is important for every man to know the woman he will marry. Because this woman will be the life companion and mother of their children in the future. The following are the characteristics of women who want to carry sustenance for their husbands .

1. Women who are obedient to God and His messenger

There are four aspects to consider before marrying a woman, is that the reasons are (1) her beauty, (2) her lineage, (3) her wealth and (4) her religion. We are commanded to determine women because of their religious aspects, fortunately if we are able to get all four. Women who are obedient to Allah and His Messenger will take the household to heaven, to comfort. A peaceful, comfortable, happy household is a very useful sustenance. A household that is governed by a pious husband accompanied by a pious wife will make the household blessed, produce pious / pious children, receive the pleasure and mercy of Allah.

2. A woman who is obedient to her husband

If I could order someone to prostrate to another I would surely order a wife to prostrate to her husband (HR Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah). As long as the order of the husband is not contrary to religion, then the wife is obliged to obey it. A wife's obedience to her husband will make the husband's heart peaceful and at peace and be able to carry out his obligation to seek halal sustenance for the family. Similarly, women who have a career outside the home can continue to work as long as her husband allows and obligations to take good care of themselves in the work area. “Men are leaders over women because Allah has preferred some of them (men) over others (women) and because of something they (men) have spent from their wealth. So the pious women who are obedient again take care of themselves behind their husbands as God has taken care of himself ". (QS An Nisa: 34).

3. A woman who serves her husband well

The main task of the wife is to carry out household duties as well as possible, serve her husband well and educate her children. A good wife tries to serve her husband well such as preparing his food, planning his needs, meeting his biological needs, keeping his husband's feelings from hurting his husband because of his attitude. Such a woman will become her husband's favorite and can be a good partner in realizing a sakinah household and attracting positive things in her household, including sustenance for her husband.

4. A woman who wears jewelry only for her husband

"Indeed, the world is an addition and the best complement to the world, namely a pious woman" (HR Muslim). It is the nature of a woman who likes to dress up and adorn, but a pious woman only adorns and shows up as a complement to her husband. A woman who, if seen by her husband, is always pleasant and knows how to please her husband. Women who even angels pray for will make it easier for sustenance to come to her.

5. If left to defend the honor and property of her husband

When a husband goes out to earn a living, the wife left at home must defend her honor, guard herself from unworthy guests, bar her out of the house if it is not too important. The husband's property entrusted to her is used for beneficial things with her husband's permission. Such a woman makes it easier for sustenance to enter her house as a reward from her obedience to God and loyalty to her husband.

6. A woman who always asks her husband to please her This woman knows how to please her husband

Maintain behavior and attitude so as not to offend and hurt the feelings of her husband. She always tries to keep her husband from being angry with her. She will not go to bed in a state of anger or leave her husband in a state of anger until he obtains his forgiveness. Invite her husband to joke to cheer up her marriage. Trying to educate his children well. Keeping your marriage secret from others. "Would you like me to tell you that wives who are inhabitants of nirvana are wives who are full of love, many children, always return to her husband, where if her husband is angry she visits her husband and puts her hand on her husband's hand while saying" I can not sleep before you are happy " (HRAn Nasai). A wife like this is a wife whose sustenance is facilitated through the hands of her husband because of her practice and loyalty to her husband.

7. Women who get help from their husbands sincerely Women who never complain no matter how much sustenance their husband brings home

Always open -hearted to accept and appreciate whatever her husband gives her. Many thanks are sincerely accepted. A woman like this is a woman who is grateful for her sustenance. God is prospective that if we are grateful He will increase our sustenance. A woman who is grateful and sincere in her sustenance always increases both the quantity and the blessings that God wants to give directly to her or through her husband.

8. Women who are able to be partners reach the pleasure of God

A woman who causes her household as worship, her devotion to Allah. Can be a balanced discussion partner for the husband. Can make corrections and convey gently to her husband. Listen to the implied message and the words of her husband attentively. Before performing circumcision, similar to fasting, circumcision asks permission from her husband and does not do it if it is not permitted. Can be a driving force and a motivator for husbands to achieve success in the world and the hereafter. That's why there is a saying "behind a successful man there is a great woman behind him". Because a woman like this is her husband's main sustenance.

9. A woman who never stops praying for her husband

A grateful woman is a woman who accepts all of God's will /destiny for her but still tries to do her best by praying for her husband and children to succeed in the afterlife. This woman never stopped praying, but made it a daily routine activity, a lip balm after prayer. This woman knows that her husband's sustenance will be increased and blessed if she always involves God in her husband's footsteps through the prayers she prays every day. (Read: Wife's prayer for husband's sustenance without hindrance). Those are the 9 characteristics of a woman or a wife who wants to provide for her husband. How lucky a man is to be able to get a wife with the same characteristics as above. Even if the wife does not have the same characteristics as above is the role of the husband to educate his wife, because the wife is the responsibility of her husband and he will be asked in darul baka about it. God forbid.